During some of the worst storms this earth as seen, you will notice one force still standing. The Palm Tree. The palm tree is made to survive. First it starts with roots–growing wide and dense. This root ball acts like an anchor. The trunk of the tree is more like a stem. It can bend and flex up to a 50 degree angle. The beautiful crown of leaves stretches out and opens up to absorb the sun’s rays. In wind and rain the leaves fold up and allow the wind to pass through without pulling the tree. These extraordinary trees survive in a large variety of climates, have many species, generate a wide range of fruit and flowers, and have survived on the earth for many years. It is no wonder they have served as a symbol for many spiritual and religious people.

We need to develop a strong root system. For some this starts with family in your childhood, others develop strong friendships and networks. Either way, your support system–where your roots grow–becomes your anchor in the world. This is the belief system and the force that keeps you standing. Regardless of the conditions, without a support system or root network, we will fall.

Let’s look at the trunk. Depending on the species the trunk can be tall or short, smooth or rough, dark or light. I think you are getting this, we are all different. WE NEED OUR DIFFERENCES TO SURVIVE. Differences are something to be cherished and embraces, not feared and punished. Lack of variety = extinction

Continuing with the trunk, flexibility. Ability to bend with the winds and storms, staying rooted but able to move. Notice the words, easy or effortless, are not included here. Flexibility requires patience through the change and ability to move outside where you are most comfortable. You have been doing this in many other ways and have made it this far beautifully, dig deep into those roots and ground yourself.

Leaves and flowers are your own special beauty in the world. Spread them for all to see during the sunny days. Soak up all the love the world has to offer. Give your fruit or talents to the world and add to the loveliness of the world with your flowers or personality. Grow the way you feel comfortable, and be the tree that you are. When the weather turns fierce and the world is harsh, allow the winds to pass by you. Sure, protect your leaves by pulling in and holding tight onto your roots. During the storm you do not change shape, or alter your being, or morph into a different species. Stay you–with your support system, uniqueness, and splendor kept safe when the world is too much.

The time will come when you can grow, bloom, and smile in the sun again. You were made to thrive, be cherished, and share magnificence like a palm tree.